One more post... guess what. Got back to the house, and I saw EVEN MORE of my things in the trash! I did what I had threatened to do earlier in the week, which was spill the contents of both the trash and recycling bins in the garage - and good thing I did, because even more of my things were buried.

So I called her, AGAIN, not in anger - but to let her know that she might want to come home before the trash runs on Tuesday, because I am not cleaning up the mess, and she'll want to be sure that trash goes out. And it's really strange: at first she tries to defend herself, has a sharp tone to her voice ("You're just making a big thing out of nothing so you can call me..." "actually, no... I was planning on doing my best not to talk to you at all this week... but then, THIS!"), and then... after I make it clear this is disappointing and disrespectful, her tone softens into something that I remember as genuine remorse. I don't know what that's all about, but I wished her a good week, hung up, and headed out to my friend's for the week.

Okay, going now. Wishing you all a GREAT week!

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19