Thanks all. The hope for R comment was before I found pretty hard evidence indicating the EA (PA?) is not over. It was a time when things were going well. This revelation changed me quite a lot.
W and I had a slightly deep R talk today. Of course, most of it centered on everything I do wrong, with no acceptance of responsibility on her part for the A. Sigh.
Anyway, looks like she wants to talk again soon. I'll fill in the details later. At rehearsal now.
