Thank you for the reply Matt. Another general question. Is the best technique for a WW who is currently living with OM to go dark? I'm pretty much lights out for past 2 weeks, with bare min texting regarding kids only. It's really hard, and is the longest I have ever went w/o having regular communication with WW. Sometimes I think about sending a friendly text, just so she doesn't think I hate her, but I have held out so far. I'm still waiting on the DB books to arrive so haven't read all of the LRT techniques yet, but have gotten a pretty good idea what they are from reading other people's stories. After going dark, how long do people usually wait before trying to start talking again?
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
