So instead of saying, "You're doing a great job" Say something along the line of "I notice that you are really working hard on your coursework. Is there anything I can do to help?"
Or "I hear that your work has been stressful for you lately. Would you like to talk about it?"
Hello Z,
I haven’t been on the board much this week, so I’m sorry if it seems like a life-time ago that I checked in with you. I agree with you. Eirinn had some excellent validating statements (above).
It sounds like you have a busy GAL ahead. Good! That has been one thing that has really helped me, even though I backslide at times. I feel SO much better about myself, getting out for a few laughs with friends, etc.
Hang in there, ok? We have your back!
Your buddy,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
