Make a plan of what you need to do and stick to it.
Yeah, I know I shouldn't try to mind read. It's tough though!
My plan at this point is to talk to a lawyer, continue trying to get proof of an actual PA & then when we get back from vacation say that we have some major decisions to make.
I am worried though that having more Intel will make it harder to go on vacation. I really do not want to ruin that for my kids... I know he is actually the one making poor decisions but regardless, I want to shelter them a bit.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
