Hi I know I am supposed to go dark. Just thought I better not go dark on here too. Wife is out of state with family for another week. Our 2nd anniversary is the 22nd. So? Do I call and wish her a Happy Anniversary? I know that is probably a dumb question. A week after she gets back she is coming over to pack up the rest of her stuff. (On my Birthday no less) She is planning on having a friend (her male massage therapist....who she says nothing has ever happened between them) help her move her furniture out of the house to her apartment. I am willing to help her. I helped her move stuff to her storage shed a couple of weeks ago. But now she says she doesn't feel comfortable me helping. Says I couldn't ask you to do that. So I am thinking I should move all her furniture ahead of time to the garage to make it as fast and painless as possible for me. Thoughts? I went to lawyer on Friday because I have to respond this week coming up. I still don't want a divorce and it is hard hearing her say I make her anxious. And that talking to me she is afraid I am going to bring up divorce or ask her what she plans on doing. Advise and Support Appreciated