I agree with Jedi - there's no need to rush into filing. It isn't a decision to be made in a rush of emotion. It's a decision to make calmly, slowly, soberly, knowing that you truly did all that you could to save your marriage. Then I think you can be at peace moving on.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus