Advice Welcome, separating and W moving out soon..

[jedi]

Journaling:

I have been keeping busy with GAL, mostly spending time with friends and family this week and updating everyone with the news of W having filed for D.

I've not heard from W, nor do I expect to. My last text was, IMO, pretty clear on how I feel and did not warrant a response.

Now that D has been filed I'm no longer scared that finishing separating the few things we still have joint are going to push her further away, and plan to try and break everything off completely in the next 2-3 weeks. I will have to visit a branch with W to remove her from my accounts and also get the house key back, but for the rest I plan to send an email with a list of items and let her decide to take them over, or I'm changing passwords.

Going to try and make a DB coach appointment this week, but I'm not sure there's much more for me to do at this point but let W completely go to walk the path she has chosen.

I can tell I'm still emotionally fragile, and the path to fully healing is still far on the horizon, but I am at peace right now with what's happening.