Dearest Zelda,

I am so sorry to hear this. We all have made mistakes during our DB process. Please try not to be too hard on yourself.

I can tell all on the board love you. We’ll help you through this. As I was told the other day (and it helped me) get back up on the DB horse.

Try to stay as positive as you can, even if it seems impossible. Can you go out with a few friends or a group and have some laughs? I’m finding that laughter truly is the best medicine.

Of course, I’m sure you realize this, but I’ll mention anyway. Your thought about NC is just what you need now.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

*Hugs*

Bob

Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15