Week one of W being back home coming to a close. d15 s17 back tomorrow from south carolina. d15 back from Kansas City on Tuesday.
Week has gone surprisingly well.
W said it is going to be wierd when all the kids are home. I said I am sure it will at first,although it wasnt wierd before.
Said one thing she appreciates is being able to get a break or go shopping without having to take the babies or get a sitter.
We are complimenting each other on things, spending a lot of time together, although have not gone out of the house together.
I think it is too soon to plan a date.
This has been a pretty happy week. Some emotional times but,longing looks, intimate time together, holding hands, kissing. Sleeping in the same bed a few nights, at her request.
Told me she wanted a back rub, and it became intimacy. Said she cant help it that she is so attracted to me...
Calling me to tell me that she is taking longer, what she is doing, and where she is at. I am not asking for that info. Providing it freely myself to her to rebuild trust.
Said she doesnt care when I show her cell phone bills, statements that prove i am doing what I say.
I have no idea when I should bring up OR, or the D, or Reconciliation. W is happy, I am happy... d1d1 are very happy little babies.
Still keeping up with my 180's, revising my goals to reflect what has worked, and what hasnt, and to give myself new signposts.for improvement.
Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1 M:9 years T:11 BD 5/2/15 W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16 W filed for divorce 6/19/15 W moved back in 7/11/15