LT, I know what you mean. I agree with AJ, that she needs to find her footing and if she wants something to happen bad enough, she has to find the way. However, I think this is also walking a fine line for you. It is hard to know what would make a difference towards one outcome or another.
As you know from my sitch, I’ve been also thinking that H might never make the first step, even if he would like to. My sitch is different though. We are not communicating (outside of business) and not spending time together. We are not even talking. It think I would have a different prospective if we would talk and communicate on a regular basis. I would probably ask some questions to see where H's head is.
I would say give it some more time before you decide to start a conversation. I think she knows that the door is not completely closed. I also hope that the opportunity presents itself soon and you will know when it is a good time to do this.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
