So I know I failed miserably at temp check, testing for awhile, but I understand it now, and am not bothered by it, I guess that's part of detaching. What I don't understand is why does the was do the temp. check and testing to begin with, do they even know they are doing it. If someone is truly done with the r, then why would they do the temp checks, testing then.
Me:47 W:47 D:12 T:27yrs. M:17yrs. S:10/14 Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr. om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer