In my mind it's not "rude". You are spending the day with your daughter. If she wanted to be a part of it, she wouldn't have left. I believe asking her to join right now just signals that you're still chasing her.
about to be 7 days without seeing each other the most in 6 years and I miss her like crazy, but at the same time don't want to see her, I cant believe she doesn't care or even misses me a little. its crazy how WW think and act.!
ok so I texted her to ask about my d2, she answered "she is fine" after she wrote "are you working?" usually Ill say "yes and ask why" but today I just said "yes" and well obviously she didn't answer back should I keep asking why when she asks or just a plain "yes" its better.'
tbh no I just have it more more as a routine I pretty much have raised her so far. so its more of an attachment to my d2 than anything else.. well besides the fact that she asks me about my d2 every day during the week.! so I really don't know.. Now I go my feelings confused cuz idk if asking for the right reasons. or maybe thats just me giving an excuse? but why would she asked if I'm working and then don't say anything else.?
idk maybe I feel like She is going to use the fact that I don't ask about my daughter anymore to like get over me or something, idk how to explain it.!
Irrational thinking. Her getting over you is not dependent on your actions. You cant base all your actions and decisions on how she will react.
In the beginning we all think this way. If we do the right things it will bring them back, if we do the wrong things it will push them away. While we can push them away to some extent their actions are on them, they will do whatever they want regardless. Sometimes it doesn't matter if you do everything right or wrong, they will still leave.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
