Yesterday my w had a bad headache due to allergies, she left work early to rest, I did her a favor and dropped d at her place after a dentist apppt. Anyway, I wanted to ask you what you thought of me emailing her asking how she is feeling today, she is taking d to an outdoor music festival and it is hot, humid, and this is not weather my w does well in. Is this pursuing, or anything else, I generally want to know how she is because I care, but after she said it felt like I was trying to charm her, i dont know if I should. i read some info about controlling behavior, it was alll about me. Its good to be able to see my issues, and work to change. The control issue seems to affect everything about me, letting go seems cosmic to me, but i guess it will all click soon enough.
Me:47 W:47 D:12 T:27yrs. M:17yrs. S:10/14 Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr. om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer
