Laying in bed feeling cruddy from a cold coming on. Can't put down the phone and just rest. Thinking through the logistics of all this. Telling W about filing D this week could be a nightmare as 90% of my belongings are still at her house. With work and my show opening, I'm not sure I'd be able to get things out. May have to delay two weeks. I know it sounds like I'm stalling, but I know her. When I tell her, she will turn immediately to control mode...get your stuff out now.

I think I will start slowly removing boxes that are already packed and get my clothes at least. This may trigger something in her to see I'm starting to think beyond normal day to day.


Me: 39y/o male
Wife: 35y/o
1 daughter, 2y/o