Out of character for her? Isn't that part of what this is about though?
I'd say make the room for her to have the conversation, but not too much. She seems to need to figure out her voice and identity and seems very unsure of herself.
Just a thought.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."