Bad idea all around. She will bring her men around because she has no respect for boundaries that you set. You will work yourself up into is frenzy. Not good.
Maybe you could move so that your son could stay in his school district but if not, have him come live with you. "saving" your wife isn't your job. She chose this path and needs to feel the pain that goes with it. She can get a regular old job if she needs money. She has this idea that she was put one earth to be taken care of, but this isn't a fairy tale. So maybe the sugar daddy well is dry for her at the moment, but somehow there will be a new one and she won't be complaint so much to you.
There are much better solutions out there, go find one.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory