Kembo, this resonated with me. The attitude thing. She's the one who walked out, but I'm the one who gets the brunt of all the anger and scorn.
My W is also a realtor. Not that I think that has anything to do with it.
Your GAL camping plans sound awesome. I wish I were more into camping myself. It seems like a great way to get out of your head and put things into perspective.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
It's still so bizarre how illogical everything is. I've just always been so logical about everything and this situation defies all laws of logic. I tell my friends they couldn't even make a movie about this situation because it is too unrealistic.
Hello Kembo,
It's been a while, but I haven't forgotten about you. Did you go camping yet?
Your quote above is exactly how I, and I'll bet almost all folks on this board feel. So sad but also so true. There is no logic at all especially in your case.
Stay on the DB Horse. You can do this my friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
I just read this whole thread and wanted to throw in there that it might not be a good idea for a realtor to sell their own house in a D situation... especially if she's as spiteful as it sounds. It would seem reasonable in a time of conflict that the two of you hire a neutral person.
I'm very sorry for your situation.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
Bob, I went camping in Colorado a couple of weeks ago and it was great. Definitely the escape I needed. I can't wait for my trip in a couple of months.
Painter; luckily everything she can and can't do is outlined in our temporary order. Nothing ceases to amaze me, but hopefully it isn't something I will have to worry about
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15
