Hello, all, its been a while since I have posted anything. Just wanted to send a quick update. Temporary order was 7-15 and we sorted out the custody, we worked out a 50/50 custody and I couldn't be more relieved. W had until Aug 1 to move out of the house but she hired movers and got all of her stuff yesterday. I was definitely shocked when I came home and noticed how much she took. I was initially very angry that she took some of the stuff without us working anything out. I was furious for about an hour and then I realized it's all just stuff. W has tried so hard to get me upset or to bait me and I just keep rising above that. She took a lot of our D2 stuff, which is sad because she didn't realize when D2 is at the house with me she will have nothing of hers there. But I look forward to going to pick out new stuff with D2. I will get her a bed today and we will go pick out sheets on Wednesday, im sure it will be Frozen themed sheets.
I'm sad this is where W and I are at, but every interaction I have with W right now shows me she isn't anywhere near ready to work on our marriage, and she may never be. I just feel sorry for her that she has this picture painted of the situation that isn't true, and the once loving and kind person I knew is gone and she's angry, bitter, and so cold now.
I am doing good, I have my ups and downs, but more ups than downs lately. I have really taken on camping and outdoors stuff for my GAL. I have always done these things randomly before, but I definitely have more time now. I camped at pikes peak a couple weeks ago and already have a trip planned to yosemite in september. I couldn't be looking more forward to this trip. Onward and upward right?
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15