Hope, if that was his reaction, I think you need to take necessary actions to protect yourself financially, legally and emotionally.

He isn't 'in' the marriage at this point from what you post.

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Me 48 H 46
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus