H approached me yesterday in house and we had first "normal" conversation since April. Full eye contact (a first), relaxed body, etc.
I was taken off guard so I was nervous at first. But I stopped what I was doing, looked at him, listened, etc.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced