Thank you guys so much. I am really in a tight spot with the vacation coming up... I don't want to ruin that for the kids. I know what I need to do (as far as laying the boundaries) but man, this is hard to work out all the details. I will arrange to meet with a lawyer soon & get that part figured out. But the timing is what is difficult.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15