hold on! - 11

[u-turn]

Hey Cali - thanks
I think this makes some sense. All the rules seem to have changed at BD though. What was acceptable before suddenly wasn't, what was expected suddenly was no longer expected or wanted. and it took me a very long time to learn the new rules of the game.

and maybe we are playing two completely different games that will never make sense together (think battleship & tether ball)

Anyways .. I see a lot of myself and my W in your sitch ... You have to not reach out, detach, and allow her to come to you ... in your case this might have to reach a point your W actually thinks all is lost ... because you and I are built to hold onto a R for ever, its in our nature that way.

This is exactly what I think W is holding on to. Nothing will change unless I change it because she knows this about me (though I thought I knew this about her).

Thanks for being so generous cali