If you share a condo, will you be ok watching her head out the door with some other man? Are you ok with laying in bed listening to the sounds they make when she invites him in later to spend the night? If you say yes to this, then ask yourself why you are willing to be her doormat.
You should not consider sharing an apartment with you ex until she has admitted things did not work out like she thought. That she has lost her identity as a wife. That she is financially struggling to make it. That she is un happy. That she wants to work on the two of you. I would not move in till you have work on the two of you and are at a point in the relationship where it will continue to move forward and have no chance of slipping backwards.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"