Hi zues. Yea, it was hard getting here and I still have a long way to go. Of that we can all be sure but I can say it's getting easier. Funny. Not that long ago I struggled with detachment and kept getting caught in the same paradox as every other LBS where you struggle to understand how detaching can bring her back. Then when you finally wake up,and realise it's not about bringing them back its like a lightbulb moment. Now the interactions, the txt the emails don't tug on my heart strings any more. Going dim really helps. If it wasn't for S9 I doubt I would have spoken to the WW for weeks.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
