That party sounds good. What is there not to like? Two cakes isn't a problem; you can save a bit 'til the week after and enjoy the moment all over again.
I know it's terribly sad, but I'm glad to see you are functioning much better than when I first came to this forum. Don't give up though - you're the daddy!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015