Yikes Wet - that sounds like pain indeed!! You are D now - maybe W just needs to find herself a source of income?

I would place the focus on having a comfortable and affordable place to live yourself and making sure the kids are ok. If W can't afford the place she's in, she may need to find a new place - but none of that is your concern IMHO....

Just my 0.2pence...


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus