In which I'm feeling lost, but will perservere (2)

[Elly4]

So, after thinking about it for quite awhile, I approached finances with my H tonight. I said that I was not comfortable depositing my whole check into my account and his whole check going in our joint. I said that I felt it was not an even situation. He asked me what I thought was fair and I replied that I deposit into our joint and transfer a portion to my personal. He thought for a few minutes and countered with us taking a close look at the budget and split the living costs between us. He will get his own account too and we'll both transfer into the joint. I said I thought that's was much better so that he has money too; not just me.

Was I wrong to bring it up? It went well I think. He was still relaxed for the night and complimented me our some improvements in our S lately.