Thanks again, Zephyr. I will read Mr Nice after I finish codependent no more. You really helped me see the other side. I have said many times on here that I truly believe he is unhappy because he never does anything for himself even though I've tried to help.

My fault though was not hearing him when he did open up. And of course the intimacy issues because of my background.

Thanks again,
E

M 46 / H 43
T 24/M 18
S 4
11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY
1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom
1/8/2016 H moved out