Silence mate. And it's working for me. I've got to a point where I'm doing my own thing for S9's birthday. I kinda like this because one of the things she said on BD day was that I never organise anything. Ok. So I've took him abroad and managed to get him home. Alive. And I've managed every drop off, pick up and god knows what else as well as have organised days with S9 so the Birth day is the next day. You read the thread on how she was when we met for a coffee? So that's just cool with me. I've already got a plan. And I've already put the wheels in motion.

Plan is my family will come here In the afternoon and do the presents and birthday cake. Ok so he gets two cakes but that's on her. Then hot dogs and pizza and then to the movies with his pals. Drop them off then a Nerf war.

What a blast.


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.