Just an update there has been no change in his attitude. He is still very depressed acting like someone sucked the fun out of him and he used to be the most fun guy ever. He doesn't joke, laugh anything it just so weird.
I am doing good. I have finally gotten the hang of GAL and I also only think about H maybe once a day or twice if I have to see him. You may think geez that's a lot but compared to where I was it is not. I used to think about it 24/7 and try to find ways or whys of what I could do to fix it or what he is thinking . Now I don't care.
Just for all those out there who are where I was and I didn't think I would ever ever stop thinking about H all the time, you will stop.