Ralphy, one night I was home alone on a Saturday night in my new flat. I got a bit down. Started thinking everyone else has plans tonight. Why not me, my life is in a mess, and so on.

Then a little voice chimed in. What would joy look like right now? How can this evening become joyful? It would look like spending a peaceful and satisfying evening alone in my new place, I thought.

So, I put on some music, cooked myself a lovely meal, had a glass of wine and watched a movie - really enjoyed myself!


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus