714Dad, so sorry that you're here, but you've come to the right place.
What Cadet posted is gold....tons of great resources to get you oriented.
Hopefully some of the other vets (I'm not one of them) will be along shortly.
Some of the things your W says sound like they could have been said by mine...I was amazed to learn how similar the scripts of walk-away spouses (WAS) can be.
This is never a pleasant thought, but have you definitively ruled out an affair, either physical (PA) or emotional (EA)? My situation started when my wife had an EA with someone she knows through work.
My advice, keep posting on here. The friends I've made and just the act of journaling has made a tremendous difference in my state of mind.
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