Zephyr you sound like you are in a similar position to me living with your partner I do understand and perhaps I am trying to control things all I know is right now I feel I have little control of what happens next

I can only work on me but do not want to loose my wife does that sound needy enough ?

Thanks

Gary

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.