So I have a question
W and I are getting along better since the split because there range no rows and she has a totally different mindset

She feels that the reason things are so much better is because she no longer feels as lonley because she is in control of her needs and does not need to rely on me to be there for her

Now I accept this but I believe also it has to do with how we have been towards each other the past 3 to 4 weeks her whole experience has been turned on its head with my 180s and the fact that we are both getting along

Now each day that passes I believe she is working on the separation distancing herself from me as an example she will be going out clubbing with a recently separated friend on Saturday (she never goes clubbing) whilst I am at my sisters with all the children

Whilst I am trying to work on myself I guess for me this journey is about how we can find a way back together but I guess for that to happen she is going to have to want it to happen and right now I do not believe this is what she wants

How do I go day to day knowing we are looking for different things ?


Last edited by Ghost56; 07/17/15 04:14 PM.
Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.