How do I DB when we are piecing, but H does not want to come home? He wants to start his new life in another town. He says he wants me to move there after I sell the house. He tells me he loves me and we spend quite a bit of time together. I feel like we are dating. I don't feel like his wife. That makes me sad. Sometimes I wonder if he is cake eating until he moves away. We both have slacked on counselling. We were supposed to have MC yesterday, but it got cancelled. He has not been to see his IC in over 2 months. He is not working on any of the issues that he contributed in the BD of our marriage. I do love him. He is bright and funny and caring (when he wants to be). He is also selfish. I'm not sure if he can ever truly live happily with someone. He can't grasp the concept that in a relationship, any relationship, you have to compromise. Sometimes (not all the time like I did) you have to put another persons needs before your own or at least consider another person before making decisions. If he can't ever change that, how can I ever live with him again? I've already raised my kids. I don't want to raise my husband. I want an equal partner that considers me and how things will affect me when he is making decisions. I'm confused!
Di-mond in the rough M-45 H-38 My children S-25 D-23 T 5 M 4 H left April Fools Day 2015
