Gwen - Just some perspective from a few years on... After my divorce from my husband of 24 years, I dated several men. (Yes, much to my surprise, there were plenty of men available to date an imperfect woman in her 50's). One thing they all turned out to have in common: not one of them could figure out why my husband would have left me! My current boyfriend of two years, says he wants to send my ex a thank you card for dumping me so that BF could find me! He feels like ex gave him the best gift ever!
My point being.....all these men can't be wrong. It really wasn't me. Sure, like all of us, I had things I needed to work on, and the process here really helped me to do that. But I realize now that the issues in my marriage mostly grew out of my ex's problems and really had very little to do with me.
Let go or be dragged. Get back to finding YOU. Experience life. Pursue your dreams.
