Ugh. This is hard!

He emailed me this-

"Thanks for getting me straightened out on how sex at our house works nowadays. I won't be planning to participate."

He also texted me that he is planning to go to the gun range w/ a co-worker to shoot next week & could try out my new sights on my pistol if I wanted him to. My first thought was to say- that's ok, I'll just join you. Then I thought no, that is pursuing, right? Then I thought of saying- I'll meet you up there when you finish & you can take the kids & I can test out the sights myself. Then I thought... Hmmm... Maybe still pursuing? Maybe I should say- hope you have fun! I'll go up to the range sometime soon & test them myself. What do you guys think?? Working to go against my first instinct! 😁


T: 14 M: 12
D: 9 S: 6
BD: 2/18/15 (H affair)
Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15
Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15
H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15
H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15