Sadie,

If what you were doing before didn't work, why would keep doing it? I suggest memorizing Sandi's rules. That is how you should interact with your H.


As far as your vacation, I would tell him, but not invite him. Go enjoy the time for yourself and kids. Make him realize that this will be his new reality if you D.


BW

Last edited by BW05; 07/17/15 02:11 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015