THe line went something like this....I have no intention of putting my life on hold, while you conduct a R with someone else. That doesn't work for me, and I'll be moving forward with my own life - with or without you. You're an adult and you'll decide what you want to do. I can only tell you what I'm going to do if this A continues..
It was something along those lines and it maI said somy have been Starsky who posted it - but I'm not sure.