FIDO - Changing The Rules - Pt 2

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I wish I could argue with you Sandi, but no, I can't.

I have operated out of fear; some days I've felt strong, but not always.

I am so right there with you. I am so afraid of doing the wrong thing. I am also afraid of divorce for my kids. If we did 't have kids, things would be so much easier & simpler.

I am glad you're on your way to getting this stuff figured out. I'll be following along so maybe I can learn a thing or two!

Hi HopeOK,

My kids are who I worry about too. Whatever life throws at me, I'll run with, but I do worry about them. How they handle this sitch will depend a lot on how she and I handle it.

I'm ready to move out. I was lying in bed this morning, thinking about how much disconnect I feel towards her. I'm the one that's starting to feel trapped.

My big problem is figuring out the finances. We're buried under medical bills right now. I know that sounds like an excuse, and it's not intended to be, but I can't be stupid about this. I'm looking for a roommate situation, so that will be a little cheaper than starting up in my own apartment right now.

I hope I can help, but my road has been a long and frustrating one...I have operated out of fear far too long instead of moving towards the life I want.

Just ask Starsky, Sandi, and Wonka