Originally Posted By: NH115
I wish I could argue with you Sandi, but no, I can't.

I have operated out of fear; some days I've felt strong, but not always.


I am so right there with you. I am so afraid of doing the wrong thing. I am also afraid of divorce for my kids. If we did 't have kids, things would be so much easier & simpler.

I am glad you're on your way to getting this stuff figured out. I'll be following along so maybe I can learn a thing or two!

T: 14 M: 12
D: 9 S: 6
BD: 2/18/15 (H affair)
Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15
Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15
H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15
H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15