Just want to say I admire all the patience and compassion you have shown, and continue to show to your H.
You seem to be in a good space emotionally. Love your healthier lifestyle plan.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced