You are making lasting changes for yourself, not for her. You have to remember that. If you are making them strictly for her, they will not last. This is a lifestyle change. If you make lasting changes, she will notice them I promise you...a lot more then your words. You have been given the gift of time. Make the most of it! You talk about "Acts of Service", but do you know what that really means to her?. I recommend you read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, if you haven't already. The premise behind "acts of service" is actions speak louder then words.

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