Honestly, I would still stay away from her. She sounds very indecisive. If you want to reconcile she needs to be fully on board with changing her bad habits just as you are changing yours. She needs to be convincing you that this marriage will be so much better than previously.
It seems like you're doing all the talking.
The plus to all this is that you made it clear your changes are permanent. As time goes on she will believe you.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
