hi desp13. Keep it up. It takes time to practice detachment. For some of us here on the forum it can be quick while others it may time a lot longer. For me, it took about 1 yr. I wasn't ready to start practicing it until month 7.

Continue to mediate (DAILY!!)

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017