Can someone advise me please I am making changes that I want to be lasting but how do I know or how does she know that they will last ...I guess it is only with time
I realise my actions of helping more with the house chores have come too late right now she does not care what I do or do not do, I know if I took the attitude of doing little then she would be out the door.
Part of me thinks she feels she has to take this stance so that I never do go back to my old ways
I have told her that she does not need to worry aa my changes are for ever but she has to see it Little steps and taking each day as it comes never give up and keep working on myself
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.