4mykid, thanks for the words. I didn't see your post until it was just bumped. I have seen your tag but haven't caught up on your sitch. I will do so now.
Sadie, your comment is extremely dismissive on many levels. It suggests the way you feel is correct and men who feel differently are wrong. A marriage is a PARTNERSHIP where both partners get a voice. You don't get to single-handedly dictate how it all works and trample down your spouse if they disagree because you're right and they're wrong. Do that long enough and your partner won't bother trying to speak up anymore, they'll go where they're wanted.
edit 3-posts moved from much older thread - cadet.
Last edited by Cadet; 07/17/1510:59 AM. Reason: moved
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15