Walk away wife and my journey

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I know the time that I have living in the same house has to be seen a a gift from her to me ....she could very easily just walk away ask to sell the house and move into a much smaller house in a rubbish area I know she is not money oriented so her remaining in the house and cohabiting right now I feel is a gift

My time management was rubbish and I di put work ahead of her needs and of my children's

I have already changed my working hours I have blocked off the morning before school so I am always arround for the breakfast

I have taken on more of the household chores I have no expections when I do this

I have started to do much more with the 2 Year old walks to the park playing with her bath time and bed time my wife is letting me do all this so we can have a better bond

I made time to go to My middle sons school leavers play and it was fantastic seeing his smile as he looked over to me

My eldest D has been away for the past 2 weeks but I have been imessaging her on a regular basis she seems happy

I am still spending time with My other son our bond is already there we are strong together

I have not had much time for me doing everything that I have been leaves me with very little time for myself .....it is school holidays from next week so I will hopefully be able to spend some more time with the children the odd day trip and start to find some time for me

I am losing weight easily I guess this is not really the way that I ever thought would be the deciding factor however it is most effective at channeling change if behaviour

Gary