I just read this and this is probably all true but women need their emotional needs met before we jump into the sack. That is something many men don't understand either. There is also a great book out there about the 5 different ways people express love. I believe it's part of James Dobson's focus on the family series. I took the quiz and I don't normally show love through affection but I think my husband does. It's about finding out your spouse's love language and loving them the way they most readily accept it.